A Few More Thoughts on Student Relationships

As substitutes, it's difficult to develop connections with students who you've just met and may only spend one day with. The following tips will help you gain their trust and build a relationship, even in the short term.

1. Speak in the second person. People who are perceived to be dull and boring speak in the first person almost continuously. On the other hand, people who are interesting and draw listeners always speak in the second person. That's why creating good relationships with students is easier if you keep the "I" out of your communications and put the "you" in. You'll find students listen better and enjoy you and class more.

2.Pay attention to how you make students feel with your teaching. Students may forget what teacher taught them the skills they have acquired, but students will never forget how a teacher made them feel while he or she was teaching them. Emotional imprints are among the strongest impacts teachers make and have an effect on our ability to teach.

3.Turn complainers into fans. When a student brings you a problem, concern, or complaint, always make it a point to show your interest in helping and resolving the issue. Students may expect to be ignored or discounted. However, small teacher actions can show your commitment to students. When a complaint surfaces, say, "Let's move to the table in the back of the room where we can talk." Take any small actions that show the student your desire and determination to help.

Have you had experience with any of these techniques? What else have you found to be successful in developing a connection with students in the short term?